This time around, second kid, i still have no idea what im doing. but why its easier this time is that i know we will never have these little people figured out completely. i am way more comfortable with trial and error and experience shows me they change every day and that when i have it figured out they will change again. and im just more comfortable with being a deer in the head lights because i already know it isnt easy. and thats why its easier this time around.
AND my kids are stunningly handsome and confusing. they make me so happy.